Independence.

So i'm not one to emotionally blog, i'll save that for super emotional menstrual chicks who just got dumped by their boyfriends. In no way is that me, but I guess today will be an exception.

So i'm recently single, like for the past 2 days and I've decided that this new found independence is not so bad and more importantly, needed. Relationships can become security blankets, you tend to get comfortable with the person you're with, which can ultimately become an excuse to dull who you are. I feel like for the last 3 months I've been part of a package, a twosome and I've kind of lost sight of me and replaced that me with us.

And not that us wasn't great; it was. My bf, well ex-bf is super amazing, couldn't ask for more, but we are headed on 2 separate paths right now, maybe those paths will cross again (I hope that they do), maybe they won't. Whatever happens, I def enjoyed the ride and would do it again without hesitation and normally this would be the part where I post a picture of us together, smiling, and happy, but I am not for that would completely invalidate this entire post and make this post a super, truly emotional one. I'm not into that.

-Shanique.